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Law offices of
VINCENT S. WONG

MATRIMONIAL LAW
Our firm practices all areas of Matrimonial and Family Law, including:
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Child Support
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Orders of Protection
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Equitable Distribution
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Domestic Violence
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Spousal Support
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Prenuptial and Post-nuptial Agreements
DIVORCES
Jurisdiction
In order to receive a divorce in New York, the State of New York must have an interest in the marriage. That means that you must have:
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The husband or wife has been resident of the State of New York for a continuous period of two years prior to the commencement of the divorce, or
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The husband or wife is a resident of the State of New York for a continuous period of one year and, either, the marriage took place in New York, the grounds for divorce occurred in New York, or the parties held themselves out as married in New York.
Grounds for Divorce
New York remains one of the few states in the country that requires couples to have a reason for getting a divorce. This is called having grounds for divorce. It is important to remember that only the spouse that is not at fault may utilize the grounds for divorce. The spouse that commits any of the following grounds cannot use them as a way to acquire a divorce from a blameless spouse.
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Adultery - Your spouse must have engaged in an extramarital affair in order for you to have grounds for a divorce. Adultery is a particularly difficult grounds to prove as you will not be allowed to testify against your spouse. You must have a witness that is willing to testify against your spouse. The services of a private investigator is often used in order to prove circumstantially that your spouse had the intent, inclination, and opportunity to engage in extramarital sex.
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Abandonment - Your spouse must have abandoned the marital home for a period of no less than a year without any intent to return or your spouse must have abandoned the marriage for a similar period of time by refusing to have sexual relations with you without justification.
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Cruel and Inhuman Treatment - Your spouse must have committed acts that make it unsafe for you to remain in the marital union. The treatment must have serious effect on your physical or mental health.
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Imprisonment - Your spouse must be in physically incarcerated in prison for three or more consecutive years before you have grounds for a divorce.
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Separation Agreement - Your spouse and you must live apart for a year under a separation agreement to have grounds for a divorce. A separation agreement is a detailed written document carefully prepared by your attorneys where the parties agree to live apart for the rest of their lives. It details the custody and support for the children, the division of property, and all other matters relating to the marital relationship. In a year, either party may bring the separation agreement to court and convert it into a divorce judgment so long as they have meet the terms of the separation agreement.
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No-Fault Divorce - Under New York law, a couple may get a no-fault divorce if one of them has stated, under oath, that their marriage has broken down irretrievably for at least six months. Before a no-fault divorce will be granted, all issues relating to the dissolution -- including property division, spousal support, child support, and child custody and visitation -- must be resolved. This can be done in a separation agreement or by order of the judge.
Regardless of whether your spouse consents to a divorce, you will still need the above grounds.
Equitable Distribution
Marital Property is the property jointly owned by both spouses subject to distribution upon divorce. It includes all property and income earned by the spouses during the course of the marriage, regardless of the form that title is held. Separate property, which will be discussed in further detail below, is held by only one of the spouses and it is not subject to equitable distribution during divorce.
Marital property includes retirement accounts, pension savings, real property purchased with marital funds, household items, automobiles, and more.
In the State of New York, professional licenses, such as doctors and lawyers, are subject to equitable distribution if the license was earned during the course of the marriage. The analysis is based on enhanced earning capacity allowed by the professional license, with the other spouse receiving a percentage of that enhanced earning capacity upon divorce.
If an asset has been acquired during the course of the marriage, the burden is on the spouse seeking to classify it as separate property and not subject to equitable distribution.
CHILD CUSTODY & VISITATION
Child custody refers to the legal guardianship involved in a divorce case. In New York, there are two forms of custody, legal and physical:
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Legal custody refers to which parent can control the child’s lifestyle. This includes religious, medical, and educational decisions that are made by the legal custodian or custodians. Legal custody can be granted to one or both parents.
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Physical custody refers to which parent resides with the child. Often enough, one parent may have sole physical custody, and the other may have visitation rights. Or, more rarely, both parents may have physical custody, which means the child lives with each parent half of the time.
Parents that do not receive physical custody of their children will usually receive visitation rights on a schedule mutually agreed upon with the custodial parent or provided by the court, if the parents are incapable of agreeing. Usually, this schedule is drafted in a manner to be as mutually convenient for both parents as possible.
The Best Interest of the Child: Who receives Custody of the Child(ren)
When a child custody case is brought to the court, the court will try to accommodate the best interest of the child and choose the environment that offers the most stability. Some factors courts will take into consideration in a child custody case are:
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The child's age, sex, and mental and physical health
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The parent's mental and physical health
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The parent's lifestyle
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The primary caregiver responsible for the child's day to day needs
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Any history of child abuse
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The emotional bond between the parent and child
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The parent's ability to provide the child with food, shelter, clothing, and medical care
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The child's regular routine
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The quality of the child's education
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The child's preference, if the child is above a certain age (this is usually around age 12)
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The ability and willingness of the parent to encourage communication and contact between the child and the other parent
Child Custody Evaluations are sometimes ordered by the Court. An evaluation usually involves an expert in the field meeting with the child and the parents to conduct a series of interviews and exams in order to analysis the health and well-being of the child and the relationship with the parents.
In Custody cases, the child(ren) will be appointed an Attorney for the Child. This lawyer will seek to represent the best interests of the child(ren) in the course of proceedings.
The best parties to determine the custody and visitation of a child or children are the parents. Every effort should be made before requesting judicial intervention to come to terms on this difficult and tricky area of the law.